Abuse is never “okay” But, whatever the circumstance, you have to gain the courage to get out of an unhealthy relationship. I know it’s hard because I have been there. It was a major struggle to get this man out of my life. This is why I wrote the book “Get Out of My Bed.” I want to help others understand that you are not the only one suffering and your situation is not hopeless. You may feel helpless at the moment but in time, you can separate yourself from your abuser.
I want to help educate others so they do not make the same mistakes as I
did. It may be hard to distinguish or identify an abusive person because
they are normally kind and wonderful during the start of the relationship.
This was how my intimate relationship started. And you will see that,
sometimes, the personality and personna of an individual you are allowing
into your world are not what they appear to be.
My first-hand experience with being in an abusive relationship makes my
book relatable and very personal. I will share with you how, in the
beginning, I truly felt loved and respected. But one day, several months
into our marriage, I was totally blindsided by a very hurtful remark my
husband made. Where did that come from? Did he have a bad day at work?
Was it something I said or did? I was left with a feeling of disbelief that
this was the congenial, loving man I knew as my husband. This was the
beginning of seven years of uncertainty and confusion. I became
hypervigilant, waiting for the next criticism, insult, putdown, etc.
This book was written as a means of self-healing. But I sincerely hope that
I can help others avoid placing their trust and happiness in the hands of a
potential abuser. If you or someone you know needs help please call the
National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800.799.7233
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